The
fast of Karva Chauth is of particular importance to Hindu women
as they believe it ensures the well-being, prosperity and longevity
of their husbands. The origin of this festival was based on a very
sweet and noble idea. Though this idea has lost its true sense as
today the whole outlook of this festival has changed. Long time
back, girls used to get married at a very early stage, and had to
go and live with their in-laws in other villages. If she had any
problems with her husband or in-laws, she would have no one to talk
to or seek support from. Her own parents and relatives would be
quite far and unreachable. There used to be no telephones, buses
and trains long ago.
Thus
the custom started that, at the time of marriage, when bride would
reach her in-laws, she would befriend another woman there who would
be her friend or sister for life. It would be like god-friends or
god-sisters. Their friendship would be sanctified through a small
Hindu ceremony right during the marriage. Once the bride and this
woman had become god-friends or god-sisters, they would remain so
all their lives and recognize the relation as such. They would also
treat each other like real sisters.
During
any difficulty later in life, involving even the husband or in-laws,
these women would be able to confidently talk or seek help from
each other. Thus Karva Chauth started as a festival to celebrate
this friendship (relationship) between the once-brides and their
god-friends (god-sisters). Praying and fasting for the sake of husband
came later and is secondary. It was probably added, along with other
mythical tales, to enhance the festival. In any case, husband would
always be associated with this festival, because the day of starting
this holy friendship between two god-sisters was essentially the
day of bride's marriage to him. Thus praying and fasting for him
by his wife during a celebration of her relationship with the god-friend
would be quite logical.
Thus,
originally Karva Chauth is once a year festival to renew and celebrate
the relationship between god-friends (god-sisters). It had a tremendous
social and cultural significance once when world lacked the ways
to communicate and move around easily.
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